Problem:
I like a girl named Natasha Afroze
Islam.She was my classmate in school and we did not have a bad relationship. She
once asked noodles from me to embarrass me, she once made me standing up till the
whole class(just to make fun with me) as I was cheating our bengali class
teacher when she was asking me the answer of a question.In class 9-10 I used to
say less words with her.Oneday, in our private teaching class, I didn't say a
single word with her and she treated my silence as I was boring. I knew it as one
of my close friends(Her close friend also) told me that natasha said-"Mushfique
karo shonge kotha bolena.O boring."But I kept myself silent as I loved her.I
also misunderstood that she loved another boy in our school.For 2001-2004 we
didnt have communication as I was in NotreDame & she was in Viqarunnessa.I got
GPA 3.90 and so I sat for improvement and got 4.5 without fourth subject. Now, my
total GPA(SSC+HSC) is 9.25 out of 10 while her GPA is 9.13.This year from
october 3rd to October 24th,I gave her 100 sms from mobile but she never
returned a single one.I talked with her for 3 days in mobile & asked why she is
behaving in this way.She couldnot give me any expected answer. She just says-"Eta(Prem)
hoye jai."I gave her a call on 5th November for continuous 1 hour but she didnot receive any.On the next day, her friend held my call & said- Dont cross
ur level. Jeche choto howar ki kono mane ache.I said-"Kono kono shomoy manush
icche korei choto hote chay."Well, both of our mothers are teachers & they know eachother very good.Her mother also knows me & my younger brother as a good
student.She often asks about me from my brother as I lost 1 year in
improvement.Now she studies in Civil Eng. in BUET & I am preparing to sit for
Medical exam i.e. in educational aspect, I am now junior to her by 1 year.I
expect to get admitted in DMC & I have also said-If I have mad myself
established, only then I will approach to her. Otherwise,I wont utter her name
anymore. But now I am able to help her in many means & want to help her
badly. But
how can I approach further when she is behaving peculiarly. I want her at any
cost. I am too emotional for her of course with a very reasonable & realistic
ision of sight. What can I do now?
Mushfique
Love Doctor: Hi, I may sound a bit rude
but R U NUTS. There is this girl who is rude and inconsiderate to you since
forever and you are madly in love with her and want to have her at any cost.
Guns to your head you should still stay away from her.
KEEP AWAY. Forget costs, even at profit keep away from persons who are rude to
you. Rudeness is never start of a happy relationship, but the end to it.
Problem:
I like to mention you that I am a married person
and I love my wife. we married after long afire we loved each other. I married
already has past 3 years. Very hard to explain to you my problem. My wife don't
like me because we have no enough money to live together because living cost is
very high so she work and earn money. we are not living together long times but
we met often and communication by over mail and over phone. But in this time
totally she don't like me and she want live alone and hate married but she will
never divorce me and she will never find some one her life accept me. But I
can't live if living with out her because I love her so much. After happened in
this moment I explained her mother and her mother trying to help out us but
still my wife not yet change her mind. She said she need take time to come back
me. I have confident on her she will never fined some one accept me I knew her
very well but problem is the finance. My most of bad site is I lost her big
amount money in my business way but I didn't do any thing could ou my self every
things happened by natural and my bad luck of my business. Now I have no enough
credit in my hand do business I am facing big problem. Money loss is very simple
loss but I am going to loss my family. So, let me know the power of love between
money or ache by heart. Please I need your help please suggest to me. I need my
wife I love her so much. I am sure some day I will earn good enough money I have
confident on my self because I know who am I. Your reply will be highly
appreciated.
H.M.Ayub Khan
Love Doctor: OK... I really
don't understand your problem. If you are not up to supporting
your wife in the first place... why on earth did you get married. You really
cant blame her... cause from where I see it... after marriage she is supposed to
be with you. And three years down the line you still haven't done anything to
stay together. Face it... your marriage wasn't anything more than signing of
documents.
Three years is a long time. Maybe your luck didn't support you in business... you
should ve tried an alternative method of supporting your family.
You want my opinion... GET REAL... MARRIAGE IS RESPONSIBILITY... YOU CANT TAKE
IT... YOU BETTER NOT BE INVOLVED IN IT. Besides, you really cant blame your wife
for anything, especially from the little you said in your letter.
START EARNING... BE RESPONSIBLE... LIFE AINT EASY... Your luck doesn't support
your business... get a job... a part time at least.
Problem:
i love her so much. more than my life. I am in
london now she is in sylhet. I have regular contact with it her. first i propose
her but she say no. but we both keep contact. some time she behave like she love
me but sometime I don't want to say. but anyway anyhow i want her. tell me what
to do. give me positive idea
Tah
Love Doctor:
Ok positive idea or not... what I can give you is
this. Ask her flat on her face where she expects this relationship to go. If she
really wants to be with you... wonderful... if not move on. Its better if you
look after yourslef with a defined future than just loiter in some kind of
confusion.
Problem:
HOW CAN I SEND A MAIL TO A/MORE THAN ONE
SELECTED PERSON ENGAGED IN E-JOOTI.
Mohammad Farhad Hossen
Love Doctor:
Sorry man, but we don't have the option of mass
mailing to more than one person at a time. I guess you just have to copy your
message and send it individually.
Yup, I know it may get on the nerve. But this also gives you an opportunity to
change the text of the mail putting your thoughts to suite the person you are
writing to to be more acceptable.
Problem:
my eyes are turning black?
Sharlin
Love Doctor: Sorry wrong number. Call your physician. Good Luck
Problem:i
have a girl friend how can i be with her?
Md.Shoriful Islam Ronju Love Doctor:Well
you already have a girl friend. Are the two of you staying in different
districts or even further. If not, I guess the two of you just will have to find
a way and time to be together. It may be between studies, or on week end or over
during shopping.
Problem: Hi M.R Love doctor. How are
you? I have no girl friend. I cannot talk to girl. When i go to talk with any girl
then my heart bit will increase.Pls if you will give me telephone number of a
young girl I will pleased to you.
Rubel
Love Doctor: Don't know about you man,
but among my friends, Chittagong is quite famous for smart chicks. Anyways, I
can't really help you with phone numbers, but use our search engine, you will
need to contact the girls via e-mail, and its their wish as to whether they want
you to call or not.
Problem: on my preferences, please
change the sex from male to female, as I'm not gay, and i can't train your
system to keep the dot in the female box. For some reason, it keeps changing to
male, and as mentioned, I'm not interested. thanks.
Robert Nahani
Love Doctor: Well your mail is forwarded to the tecies in E-Jooti. I am sure they will step
right to it.
Problem:i want to fall in love but i get scared to trust anyone. what
do i do?
Fairy
Love Doctor: Well mate, I guess you just have to risk it. There is
always the fright of getting your heart broken... but playing safe is kinda
letting go all the good times you may have if you took the risk.
I am not saying that you close your eyes and jump for the person who first comes
in front of you when you open your eyes... but play safe... know the person as
well as possible before getting involved.
Problem:Doc. I'm not happy with your ans. Is this a "hy hy" company
or what .You know what I mean.
Gullu Mian
Love Doctor: Well sorry my answer wasn't what you expected. But that's
what I feel bout your situation. Like it or not.
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